There are many
reason why a person would strive to “do the right thing” in any given
situation. They are as varied and numerous as there are people on the planet.
Or at least we would like to think that. I believe that, in essence, there is
really only a short list of meaningful “why” one wants to “do the right thing.”
The first
would be because we are taught from a very early age both through
religious/social/cultural teachings and through life experiences that we tend
to get what we give. When a person spends their time doing things they know
they should not be doing then they end up dealing with the consequences of
those actions. They also put themselves in the position to have those ever same
things happen to them. So over all I believe people strive to do what is right
so that they are treated right.
A lot of
“doing the right thing” is wrapped up in our own self-esteem. When we do what
is socially and culturally accepted as right we get a feeling of being a better
person. It gives us a feeling of fulfillment and meaning.
Another
important factor is self-preservation. In many cultures around the world, our
actions reflect how those around us react. It is not uncommon in some places
for an individual to be banished from his or her family and/or community if
they act in ways that would be considered unethical or against the norm. If the
action is considered “wrong enough” a person might even be considered a
criminal and forced to be incarcerated. When we perform what is perceived as
right, then our community sees us in a positive light. We gain the respect and
trust of our family, friends, communities, and businesses. And through gaining
this respect and trust we are able to prosper, living a better life than
someone who is seen as doing the “wrong thing” all the time.
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